Saying goodbye to an old friend

I just got back from spending the day at a memorial service for an old friend. Harry Ariza was an incredible man, and I consider myself very fortunate to have known him for the past 20 years.

Harry and his wife, Dee, were the directors of the first color guard that I was ever in. I met them when I was 14 years old. I spent 3 years with them, during my formative high school years. Harry was a very kind man, who was incredibly patient, and always made everyone laugh. He was such a positive influence to so many young adults who became a part of his family. I believe that he changed many lives, and that he may very well have saved a few.

After Harry and Dee disbanded the Sparks Color Guard, he went on to become a judge of the activity. As an instructor years later, I remember that he was the type of judge who gave very fair, and constructive feedback. He was well respected by his peers, and admired by those who he judged.

There were so many people in attendance of his memorial service today - a true testimony of what a wonderful and respected man that he was.

Harry will be deeply missed by so many. I will miss seeing his smile when I go to shows.
My love goes out to the entire Ariza family - and I thank them for welcoming so many of us into their hearts.